Welcome a new member of the Abide team, Elyse!

We want you all to meet Elyse Venturella. Elyse currently practices social work in Philadelphia and is taking 6 months off to join us in Uganda. We think she is great, which is why we asked her to come on board as we launch Abide. Elyse will be traveling to Uganda in August and teaming up with our social work staff to help in implementing effective family strengthening services to families.

We asked Elyse to share a little bit about herself so you all can put a face, name and story to the newest member of the Abide team. 

"During my theatre performance studies at Elizabethtown College, I discovered that theatre is about the human connection through story.  I took my passion for stories to Philadelphia, where I was an English tutor for Arabic speaking immigrants. In the midst of the frustrating and humorous language barrier, the stories and passionate families lead me to Temple University’s Masters in Social Work program. I’m now a therapist for women with prostitution and addiction concerns. I also volunteer for Back on My Feet, where I run three times a week with residents of a homeless shelter. It doesn't matter if it is a classroom, a therapist office, or the Kelly Drive running loop – all of the individual stories I have been blessed to hear are about a place to call home.  And rather then treating the problem, I strive to assist others in preventing the continuation of their struggles. This is why I believe in Abide Family Center. I believe there are alternative solutions to providing families care and support, as they create their home. The solution and tools for prevention are in the story. I am honored to join the center as a social worker in August 2013 and plan to learn and share with the Ugandan culture for 6 months."

Elyse, welcome aboard! We are thrilled to have you along for the ride.

Grand total for our Countdown to Kindness Fundraiser....

$14,581.00

We are so blown away!!! You guys rock!!!

Two Days Left to Give [Make a tax deductible donation before 2012 is officially over!]

This is a glimpse into Gift's story.
Her Mom died when she was a baby. Her family was unable to care for her. She spent the first few years of her life in an orphanage.
Although she is now back at home with her Jjajja (Grandmother), she lost some critical years at home.
We need you to understand that this could have been prevented. That Gift never had to be placed in an orphanage. She could have stayed in her family. Her family just lacked the resources to make this possible.
We share with you Gift's story because we need it to be real to you.
This is not another batch of statistics or a well-written research article on children living in institutional care in Africa.
It is a story of a little girl who should have never been separated from her family.
This family is one of the many reasons we are launching Abide Family Center.
Why we have come to believe so strongly in the strength and resiliency of the African family.
Why we are asking you to consider making an end of the year donation to help us in the construction of our new property in Bugembe, Jinja, Uganda.
The property that will welcome with open arms and serve families like Gift's.
Because we believe children belong in families, not in orphanages.

We have two days left in the month of December and we are only 4 RAK's away from our goal. This means we need just under $2,000 donated in the next 2 days to reach our goal. We invite you to make an end of the year donation to Abide to support the construction underway on our property in Uganda. If you have been abundantly blessed this year and have some extra money to give. You can donate online here: DONATE TO ABIDE [We use PayPal for donations, which is a secure server]

Abide Family Center is a project of The Antioch Group, a 501c3/nonprofit.  This means your donation is tax deductible.  Make your donation and make sure to claim it on your 2012 taxes before the year is over.

We hope you all had an excellent Christmas and we wish you a very safe and blessed new year. We are so excited to see all that God has in store for Abide in 2013. The most exciting year for us yet!

With love,
Kelsey & Megan
(and the rest of the Abide team)

Christmas Giving

Is your Christmas shopping list left with that one person who seems to have everything? Still stumped on what to give them?

How about making a donation to Abide Family Center in their honor?

Donate on our website and in the comments mention that you are donating in someone's honor and which card you would like. We will then send you one of the cards below that you can give to the person on Christmas morning!

Here in the link to donate via paypal (all donations are tax deductible) 

http://www.abidefamilycenter.org/donate0.aspx 

For a donation of any kind

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All donation will be included in our Countdown to Kindness! Keep following on Facebook or the blog

Check out where your donations are going for the Countdown to Kindness

This is where your donations are going. Our new home in Uganda. Complete with a (NEW) wall and gate around the property thanks to your generous donations. Next phase: construction on the actual structure already standing and the building of a brand new structure that will serve as emergency housing for families at Abide !! We can't say thank you enough! God is good.





This is the actual building where Abide's services will be run out of, it's what the photo of the wall above is enclosing. As you can see, the last three units at the far end are not complete. The money from the the Countdown to Kindness is going toward the completion of these units & the building of transitional housing for families without anywhere to stay.

Countdown to Kindness

Join our Christmas Fundraising Event!

Help us get to TWENTY Random Acts of Kindness by December 31st!!!!!
(we do one random act of kindness for every $500 we raise)

1. Watch the video


Countdown To Kindness from Abide Family Center on Vimeo.


2. DONATE

3. Check the blog periodically to see pictures and videos of our Random Acts of Kindness as the money comes in!

3. Share on FB, twitter, blogger, tumblr, pinterest, etc... to get your friends to donate too!

The Countdown:

20. Games collected for kids in inner-city Philadelphia



19. Stocking filled for kids in inner-city DC



18. Box of chocolates left on a stranger's doorstep



17. Free coffee and bagels for four unsuspecting college student

16. Free night of babysitting for some awesome parents

15. Flowers for the amazing Rachelle














14. Chocolate covered pretzels for a studying student

13. Christmas cards for people living in a nursing home

12. Homemade cupcakes for a sweet neighbor

11. A Movie Night Package for a Very Deserving Couple so They can get a Much Needed Night Out (w/ Complimentary Babysitting)

10. Free Car Wash (Complete with Windex'ed Windows and all!)

9. African Fabric Head Wraps for a Random Gym-goer

8. Encouraging/cheesy post-its in random places

7. Quarters at a vending machine

6. Christmas goodies for someone spending the holidays alone this year

5. Meal for a family with a new baby

4. Paying for the person behind us at the drive-thru

3. Leaving extra diapers and wipes in the mall bathroom

2. Doing the roommates dishes

1. Paying the toll for the person behind me

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HELPED!!!

We Love Moby!

I (Megan) am OBSESSED with baby wearing. I love cuddling babies and the idea that I could cuddle a baby even when doing dishes and cleaning and going for a walk is like the coolest thing ever. Also, strollers are really hard to use on African roads.

So, I knew that I wanted to be well-equipped for all our baby caring needs at Abide. I wanted great quality baby carriers on hand for the moms and dads at the center and for babysitting (and maybe future fostering?). So I researched like crazy and settled on wanting a wrap and a soft structured carrier.

For our wrap, Moby very generously donated TEN Moby wraps! They come in a variety of beautiful colors and designs and after the initial overwhelming feeling they are really easy to use. It only took me two or three tries before I had the wrap down and putting baby in and out is super easy. They're a great sturdy material so when baby is in they feel secure and you can confidently use your hands for other chores. You can easily wash them and throw them in a diaper bag when you head out. From my experience babies love them and sleep great safely wrapped up and cuddled up to a caregiver.

So below we have some great shots from the fabulously talented Kate Casaday of our Moby in action:

Thank you Moby! We are officially fans :)